Hello everyone I’m another husband who’s wife is a firm believer in spanking a naughty boy on a school theme as she insists I wear a school uniform shorts included she loves being the firm ,strict headmistress and has a mortar board and gown her motto reads “well my boy if you act like a spoilt graft you will be spanked like one.

I understand,” said Jaime, knowing that baring her already warmed bottom for a second spanking would be a challenge. In domestic discipline spanking is split into spanking as punishment and maintenance spanking. A certain number of spanks can be used as punishment for bad behavior. This includes spanking with a hand, paddle, hairbrush, or any other item. As soon as the punishment is administered, the mistake is forgiven and doesn’t require any more discussion or punishment. It’s different from maintenance spanking - it is done at a predetermined time on a regular basis to reaffirm the couple’s roles and power exchange. This punishment requires the sub to spend a defined period of time in a room without being allowed to go out. It can also be combined with other ways of domestic discipline punishment. Sending to bed early Sunday evening was the time when Jaime received her maintenance spanking from Jake. She always dreaded it. She never knew whether it would be an easy spanking because he didn’t remember when she had been bad or whether it would be hard and punishing because he thought of a reason that she should have been punished and wasn’t. If it was too light she didn’t think it was worth the time and if it was too heavy she was angry, at least for a while. As Jake approached her she could tell that he had a different method of handling her in mind for this morning. She smiled at him through her tears. She loved to please Jake. She loved to hear his praises of her.

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Also, domestic discipline participants often sign a contract before being involved in this kind of relationship. It serves as guidance for both parties on what the rules are and which punishments will follow if these rules are broken. The husband will usually outline a wife discipline program that she has to agree to. Consent is a must for both BDSM and adult domestic discipline relationships. Domestic discipline punishments Cornertime: During this time, Young Lady, you will have your hands either behind head, or down at your side, standing tightly facing the corner like the naughty well spanked little girl that you are. Your beautiful sore red bottom will still be completely exposed, Little Miss High and Mighty, and you will not be permitted to ask me any questions, nor will you be allowed to rub your stinging red bottom any more. You will feel me standing behind you, at times, pulling your hair away from your ears so that I might whisper terms of endearment expressing just how lovely you look in this undignified, unsophisticated situation. One of these parental anxieties arises around the question of the propriety of the bare-bottom spanking of their 18 year old daughters – and if this is an issue for moms, then it may be an even bigger issue for dads. However, from the point of view of their daughter who is freely entering into such a disciplinary arrangement, this is not a big issue at all. In our own case, Melanie was very clear on this point – that she expected that all her spankings from myself or her father would be given on her bare bottom. That was clearly the most effective way to give a spanking, so in Melanie’s mind there was never any doubt about the need for her panties to come down. In fact she would have been mightily disappointed if myself or her dad had failed to step up on this issue. Certainly for her dad it was a sense of righteous parental duty that overcame any qualms that he might initially have felt at the prospect of having his 18 year old daughter over his lap, with her panties down. Jacob grabbed her chin and turned her face so she couldn’t avert his gaze. “Eyes on me, young lady. Start again.” Domestic discipline resembles the patriarchal system and embodies the ideal household described in the Bible. So this type of relationship will best suit straight monogamous couples who may also be Christians who believe in the teachings laid out in the Bible. That’s why this practice is sometimes called Christian Domestic Discipline (CDD).

I suspect a big part of the reason corner time works so well to calm, center and relax me is that it's mandatory. All of the other techniques -- meditation, yoga, etc. -- are voluntary. I can stop whenever I want to. And because I have an extremely short attention span and because I have have a very hard time not fidgeting or moving around, I generally stop way before traditional methods like meditation have a chance to work. I've read a lot of comments from women in DD relationships that express their resistance to corner time. Usually the reason given is that it's boring or that they'd get impatient and restless if they had to spend more than a few minutes there. And yes, it's certainly not as glamorous or dramatic or even sexual as a spanking is. The power of corner time is more subtle and nuanced, and it's buried deep in the hidden, personal stillness of our hearts. Late this evening I stepped into the living room; he was sitting on the sofa. I was wearing only t-shirt and panties, I was bare foot.

It is very important for parents who are considering introducing their 18+ daughters to old-fashioned discipline in an arrangement of this kind, to give some real thought to procedure. If discipline is worth doing, then it is worth taking the time to do it well. The stern Headmistress who is displeased with your antics at school, and drags you into her office for a proper thrashing Domestic discipline relationships can work only if both partners agree to take defined roles and believe that it will enhance their relationship. If someone is unwilling to take on a role or doesn’t feel comfortable in it (it can concern not only women but men as well), it’s probably not the best choice to be involved in a domestic discipline relationship. Remember that mutual consent, defined rules, punishment methods, and limits are what makes domestic discipline different from abuse.